I’m not allowed to say what I’m listening to just yet, as this would surely show up in somebody’s Google alert, and my loose lips would have sunk a ship. Mine. I will say that I’m listening to one of the greatest songwriters of our lifetime, and right now it’s easy to see why.
Since I have some time, I figured I’d catch up on my blogging. I have so much I’d like to jump into, but the music tonight is sort of dictating the content. In other words, not the right time to tell you if I think Jay Cutler is a pussy willow or not.
No, the sounds tonight feature tales of love, and love lost - relationships that have ended, and others that have yet to begin. Including the pain that surrounds all of that. I’m not sentimental just yet, but it does tap into something I’ve been thinking about over the past week. That is that I have some wonderful people in my life right now.
To that sentiment, have you ever wondered what your process of selection is for those that you surround yourself with? Of course, some people are related, and some just happen to occupy the same space with you, albeit a job or some weird roommate you get stuck with. Not to diminish those relationships. But still, even among family and co-workers – you vibe with some more than others.
Maybe I’m over analyzing, but I’m realizing that I use humor as a way of finding those I love. My closest friends (a small group) have one thing in common – a great sense of humor, topped off with an outstanding laugh. Nothing makes me happier.
In my experience, a good laugh can tell you a lot about a person. A strong laugh is a sign of security and confidence, unless it’s a fake one. But, you can usually catch those. A good laugh usually comes with the ‘what you see is what you get’ personality. Granted, sometimes that visible personality can be that of an asshole. Still, there’s no hiding.
There’s nothing I’d rather do than sit with my friends and laugh. You know who you are, and I appreciate and love everyone of you.
Okay, the record is almost over. Perfect timing…
Not pictured, but thinking of Jessica S, Bendte, and most recently Daina. Oh, and Jilly Bean and Houck Finn.
